Sexy and the Club
There’s always the problem of wondering how much is too sexy when going out to a party or a club. Let’s put it this way- women with a bit of mystery and intrigue will definitely bring in the right kind of attention. On the other hand, women who just love to wear barely there cuts outs that leave little or nothing to the imagination, will just get the guys who view them as objects.
There seems to be a bit of confusion when it comes to understanding that being ‘sexy’ does not mean wearing little or no clothes. I know many girls who can look drop dead amazingly sexy without showing any hints of cleavage or busting out their clothes. I love how Emma Watson sums it up:
What’s sexy about saying, ‘I’m here with my boobs out and a short skirt, have a look at everything I’ve got?’ My idea of sexy is that less is more. The less you reveal the more people can wonder.”
– Emma Watson
Can I get an encore please?
This statement has so much truth to it. What really is sexy about your ass hanging out of your pants or your dress looking as if some material got caught in a door and ripped it away? What is sexy about your boobs just hanging there by the tiniest piece of cloth?
Honestly, the definition of sexy, as ironic as it seems, is ‘less is more’.
What kind of guy would want a girl who just gives all the other guys a free show? Definitely not a real man.
At the end of the day, it all comes down to self respect and self worth. How much are you worth? Are you the kind of girl who likes to give a free show? Or are the girl who knows the art- because it is an art- of looking sexy while actually wearing clothes? The type of girl who knows that when she strips down and dirty, it’s only for her man- and not for the rest of guys ogling at her barely there ensemble?
I’ve put together a few looks that are all classy, but has that subtle sexiness without giving the world a free show.
1. Perfect for the girl who loves bright hues and experimenting with different colour combinations. A bustier should never ever be worn with a bottom piece that is almost it’s size! You can also throw in a blazer to tie up this entire look.
2. There’s always the girl who prefers to play it safe with black and whites- and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Black and white are at the top of the pyramid of all things statement. A gorgeous lace dress can be transformed from safe to sexy with a black blazer and statement necklaces. You can always opt for smoky eyes, but a clean cat eye and pink lips can definitely turn heads.
3. A pop of colour could never hurt anyone. It’s a step way outside the comfort zone and way into the sexy zone. Who said makeup can’t transform an outfit? Not I. You can add any colour you want, but I always think that adding electric blue beneath your lash line can more than add more than another flute of champagne to your night! Here’s where another pop of colour comes boldly into play- red lips. No guy could resist the allure of red lips, and when pairing it with electric blue accents, let’s just say things can get a bit electrified!
4. Red- the all time colour of pure seduction, and my personal favourite colour in the fashion world. Red is epitome of all things sexy. A red blazer and a lace shorts is an unbeatable combination. It’s sexy, but it definitely does not make it seem as if you’re saying ‘hey look at me- I’m naked!’. Adding a layered necklace can cover your boobs- thus hitting the nail on the head when it comes to mystery. You can see cleavage- but barely. Again here’s the rule of smoky eyes = nude lips. Red stilettos are certainly apt when wearing a red top piece. This is definitely, a killer combination.
XO, The Classy It Girl!